
The Higher Self is that part of you that connects you
directly to the spiritual realms. It is eternal, infinitely wise and transcends
our everyday consciousness. It is in touch with the Divine because it is part
of it. Attaining knowledge of the Higher Self and its depths of inner wisdom is
the goal of the spiritual question in all its many forms. Each of us is
connected with the 'Divine' however we believe that power to be. The Higher
Self within us far transcends the understanding of our conscious minds. This is
the power that all the great geniuses and teachers throughout history have
accessed. It is also the place of magic and miracle in our lives.
2. Transform Your View of the World
We are brought up with a primarily materialistic world view that neglects the
role of Spirit. To establish close contact with spiritual realms, we need to
have our entire being - conscious and subconscious - congruent with our goal.
In any major activity/goal you have to establish the rules of the game and the
way it is played. Contacting your Higher Self is the same. So you need to start
seeking out writings and teachers that expand your understanding of the
universe and how it works in relation to your actions and thoughts.
3. Solitude
Make regular time for yourself where you can be totally alone. A quiet place is
preferable. Just sit quietly with no expectations. Do NOTHING. This may feel
very uncomfortable and strange in the beginning. Persist and practice! You need
to give time and space for the inner voice to make itself heard. It will likely
do so during that quiet time or else during the events of the day for instance:
A synchronistic event will occur or someone will tell you exactly what you need
to hear or you will get a sudden flash of intense insight. All great geniuses
of history have found times of regular solitude and silence for themselves and
most self-help/motivational speakers/books will tell you this is so very
important.
4. Meditation
In meditation, you work to discipline your mind and silence the internal
chatter that constantly fill it. You create a pure vessel for the Higher Self
to fill. Following your breath is an excellent meditation discipline, as is
concentrating upon a candle flame. Or visualize a golden ball of light in your
Solar Plexus that fills your whole body with energy and healing. There are many
practices that you can study and use. Please read more under my articles about
meditation and auras.
5. Journal
Record your feelings, emotions, dreams and insights every day in a journal.
This will help you to come into closer contact with your inner intuitive
depths. You can ask the Higher Self questions here, and then later on record
whatever insights/answers you receive. If you do this regularly with belief and
expectation, you WILL receive the answers you need.
6. Inner Dialogue
Conduct a regular inner dialogue with your Higher Self. For the next month try
this: decide to keep in contact throughout the day with your Higher self. Say
to your Higher Self, "I know you are there and I want to get to know you
and pay attention to you. Please begin to speak to me and guide my life"
Don't worry if this dialogue is entirely one-way to begin with. Remember that
you have been out of touch for most of your life. It takes a while to clear the
cob webs! Persist with this inner dialogue as if talking to a friend - chatting,
asking questions, sharing your hopes - and begin to listen for answers. They
will come.
7. Life Lessons
Look upon life as a
8. Dreams
Expect your Higher Self to speak to you in dreams. Before going to sleep, do
some stretching and bending to relax your body completely. Take some crystals
that enhance dreaming to bed with you. Ask your Higher Self a question and
expect an answer. When you wake up, recall whatever you can of your dream and
write it down in your journal. If you are not used to remembering dreams, this
will take time and persistence. However with patience, you will begin to recall
your dreams AND receive answers from your Higher Self.
9. Mindfulness
Focus upon living more and more in the present, on the NOW. When you are
eating, be aware that you are eating. When you walk, know that you are walking.
The only real moment is now - the past is gone forever and the future has yet
to be. Therefore, work to clear your mind of concerns, illusions and
extrapolations. Clear the mental clutter from the mind and create space for the
Higher Self to fill. [this is one I still personally have trouble with...always
thinking about something else rather than the task at hand.
10. Patience!
Yep, that lovely, wonderful, special word! Remember, you may have been spending
your entire life out of touch with Source. So doesn't it make logical sense
that it may take time to learn how to re-establish contact. Anything worth
doing takes time and practice and work! Be vigilant and practice these steps
every day and you will receive the answers you need. Remember: Your Higher Self
WANTS to be in contact. In fact, to even speak of it as someone apart from you
is contradictory. The Higher Self IS you! The real you! So get in touch with
YOU!
